Why does love bring both beauty and pain?
In this Q&A at Xiamen University, Khenpo Sodargye answers students’ questions on love, attachment, desire, family pressure, emotional pain, sleeplessness, and the Buddhist path of letting go.
From Tsangyang Gyatso’s love poems to modern relationship struggles, this conversation explores how Buddhism does not simply reject love — but teaches us to understand attachment, reduce suffering, and love with more wisdom.
What you will discover
① Can love and Buddhist practice exist together? ② Why attachment in relationships can become painful ③ Whether the pursuit of truth can also become attachment ④ How to face love, desire, family pressure, and difficult choices ⑤ What to do when emotional pain keeps you awake at night
👇 Check the timestamps below to follow the questions step by step.